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Overcome "I Don't Want To" In Your Career
By: Deborah Brown-Volkman

hat do you not want to do in your career? Do you not want to
research new job opportunities because its too much work? Do you
not want to update your resume because you are unsure what to
write? Do you not want to make time to think about your career
because you hope it will improve on its own?

Like eating vegetables, sometimes the career tasks that you dont
want, are the tasks that are best for you.

As human beings we are ruled by our feelings. We go with what
feels right in the moment. The good part about this is we listen
to ourselves. We know ourselves best and this self-awareness
helps us greatly in our career. The bad part is I dont want
to, which many times is not in our best interest.

If we went with what we felt like doing all the time, we might
never get out of bed in the morning. (Doesnt it feel better to
be underneath your blanket sometimes?) But then what happens to
your career dreams? When do you work on them? When you feel like
it? What happens if you only feel like it from time to time?

Make sure I dont want to wins. How? Follow these three steps


Only you can decide whether your career moves forward or not. You
may believe its your boss that is holding you back, the people
in your office, or the human resource director that does not
return your phone calls, but the truth is your career is in your
hands. If you want something different, you have to do something
different. Have you been disappointed by something or someone in
your career? We all have. You are not alone. Dont let what
happened in the past predict your future. Decide that now is the
time that things will change for the best. Get out there. Try
again. Make a promise to yourself that you will. Youll be amazed
at what you can accomplish.


All great things in your career will not happen on their own. You
need a plan. Think about all the times you have been successful
in your career-you had a plan. You planned which school you would
attend. You planned which companies or industries you would work
for. If you had a big presentation or meeting with your boss, you
planned for it. In all cases, you had a big picture in your mind
and you broke that picture into smaller pieces. Use this system

Put these 3 items into your plan.

Item One: Describe What You Want.

A new job? A promotion? More money? More resources? Or, more time
for yourself? Be specific. Your what is your goal.

Item Two: Describe How You Will Get What You Want.

Write down the steps you will take to make your goal happen. If
you do not know, write down how you will find out. Open your
calendar. Put in when you will do each one of these steps. Many
times I dont want to creeps in because you are not focused.
You dont know what to do so you do not act. Maybe you are
waiting for the answer or the momentum to come to you. It wont
happen. Having everything in your calendar will keep you moving

Item Three: Set A Deadline.

Create a date when you expect to reach your goal. You may reach
it or not, but that is not the point. You need a game to play,
something to shoot for. We work best when we have deadlines and
you have just given yourself one.


All career goals are reached over time. Small consistent action
on a regular basis produces results. When you begin working on a
goal, you may not see the results right away. This does not mean
you are not getting somewhere. You are. Trust this. Over time the
results you want begin to appear, sometimes like magic. This is
because you have been putting in the time and doing the work. You
are beginning to see the rewards for your effort, but only if you
have been consistent.

So, if you wake up in the morning and dont feel like working on
your career, or its the end of the day and you are tired and
dont want to, work on your career anyway because you said that
you would. Put in the effort because the effort will be
worthwhile. Plus, you made a promise to yourself that you would
reach you goal. (step #1) Make your promise mean something.

So, what do you say? You only have one life to live, so it might
as well be a life you love!

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